United Way Suggests Five Key Ideas for New
Parents
You can help your
child learn better and be happier just by following these five simple
guidelines, developed for the “Born Learning” campaign of United Way,
United Way Success By 6 and Civitas (www.bornlearning.org).
Understand and respond to your baby’s
needs.
You can’t
“spoil” an infant, so go to her when she fusses or cries. By responding
to your baby’s cues, you teach her that you care about her needs and
that she can trust you. Ignoring a baby’s needs can do harm by causing
stress levels to rise. You may not always understand your baby’s cues,
but be patient. This is a learning process for both you and your baby.
If she likes what you are doing, you know you are getting it right.
Take care of yourself so you can care for
your child.
Becoming a
parent can be overwhelming and exhausting. Unless you take care of
yourself, you will have a hard time taking good care of your child. For
this reason, it is important to have support from friends, family and
community organizations. Do not be afraid to ask for help caring for
your child.
Talk, sing and read to your child.
Let your child hear
your voice as much as possible – it does not matter what you say to him.
The newborn brain is especially interested in sound. You can form a deep
emotional connection between you and your child by simply sharing the
sound of your voice with him. Sounds also are important to a newborn
because they are building blocks of speech and language.
Create a
predictable world for your child. Providing routines and expected
responses gives your child a sense that the world is a trustworthy
place. It also teaches him that he can depend on you. If your child
understands this, he will spend less energy fussing over his needs and
more time learning. Routines can include basic activities like feeding
and bathing.
Provide a warm and loving environment.
Helping your
child feel safe and secure is the key to encouraging growth and
development. A child who feels loved will have and easier time learning
about the world around her. Therefore, make sure you interact with your
child, providing love and affection.
Success By 6
is an initiative that aims to raise awareness of the importance of early
childhood development, increase access to services, and advocate for
public policies to improve young children’s lives.
